Women Can Be Bums Too | Accountability, Relationships & Personal Growth

0:01 All right, so we have all heard, you know, growing up that men, you know, are bombs, right? But what about women? Can women be bombs? We all heard people how say men are bombs because they don't work. And of course, I believe that, you know, the Bible say for man don't work, you don't eat. Then you got men who are bombs because they can't provide, you know, they always lose their job. They always, you know, leeching off of someone or they just don't have money at all. And that's a bomb. But the question that nobody asked is, can women be bombs too?

0:56 And is the standards and does the standard supposed to be equal? I believe yes on both of those women can be bombs. And no, the standards are not equal. The reason why I say the standards are not equal is because women save other women. Men don't save other men. So if you that girl home girl, she's going to make sure that your name is not in a light like that dude. Now, if you got a partner and if he's honest with you, he not going to allow you to just, you know, Leech off of him. You know he going to tell you to work just like he is, especially if you going to stay at somebody crib.

1:45 But what makes someone a bomb, in my opinion, will make someone a bomb is someone who is not working, someone who don't have any goals, but you're out every weekend partying. You know you're wanting to be in the spotlight, but you don't want to work. That's a bomb. Another thing is there are different standards when it comes to men and women. A woman could stay with her mom and may not have a lot of bills to pay, but she's out every weekend. But she wanting the the, the lavish lifestyle, but she's not paying rent.

2:39 So she's living rent free, but she's not doing much for herself. And I believe that's a bomb. If you're not doing nothing for yourself while staying with your mom or your friend, that's a bomb. If you can go out and throw your, you know, your body around or throw your ass, you don't understand, but you're afraid to punch in or you can't afford to punch in because you afraid of what other people may think of you, then you're a bomb. And it's not fair to other people who are trying because you do get a lot of men who have what you do get a lot of backlash.

3:29 Men get a lot of backlash because they are labeled as bombs. But there is probably as equal bombs when it comes to women. Then I'm not going to say that, man, but it could be pretty equal. It could be pretty equal. And the standards are not.

3:51 The standards are not the best because a woman, like I said, a woman is always going to take up for a woman. It's it's going to be hard for a man to take up for another man depending on if that person rock with you. Now if they rock with you, they going to give you some leniency. They going to say, hey bro, I ain't going to lie, rock with you bro. I want to see you do great. I ain't going to put your business out there. That real man won't put nobody business out there. You just going to let them know, hey bro, I ain't going to lie.

4:19 You can do a little bit more. I know, I know times are hard, bro, but hey, you can work this job until you get on your feet. You know, that's how I feel like a real man is, you know, like he'll help you out instead of putting your business out there. Now, if you friend on the Internet and you acting like you're really going to work, but you're not you you're gambling or you sleeping at someone house, you going over people cribs and eating a snacks, you a bomb. You know what I'm saying? You're a bomb.

4:56 You know you want to be in the AC all day, but you don't want to be out in the sun, put in that work or just be at a a warehouse put in that work. You on the game, you know, playing for five or eight hours and you ain't made no money. You know what I'm saying? That's a bomb.

5:19 There are double standards and I think men and women need to shed light about the double standards when it comes to men and women being bombs. We already know men can be bombs, but most of us are not aware that women can be bombs as well. Like what makes a woman a bomb?

5:43 You using you're you using people for their hard earned money and you going to spend it at a club, You're going to go spend it for some bottles, you're going to go spend it for a dude that don't like you and you're not getting anything in return. But you know, publicity leaching off of someone. There's people, there's women out here who are leeching off of other people, you know, who can't seem to have a stable job, but they're going from house to house. They're borrowing money from people. They owe money.

6:35 Knowing that they owe money to people. They are blocking them and never seeing them again. You know what I'm saying? You blocking your blessings? That's a bomb. A woman who have children but don't take care of those children and expect the husband or the baby dad or the child's father to do most of the work. But you get to have fun and go with your friends. Go out of town and expect the child's father to do all the hard and The Dirty work. And he's supposed to do all the work. But it's supposed to be a team.

7:15 It's supposed to be a team. There's many ways a woman could be a bomb. I'm just naming and just saying a few, you know? But we do have to shed light on women who are bombs because there are women who are bombs. For real. Like if you go out on a date and you expect a man and you take your friends out on a date with you and you expect a man to pay for all of y'all and he only wanted to take you out and you dip out on him you a bomb. That means you don't have any money. If you don't have any money don't go out.

7:57 If you see a young lady, she grinding and she is trying to get somewhere in life and you know she got a popping name, but you spreading dirt on her name, telling people that she got a disease and you telling your sisters or your brothers, this girl done something to you. So now you're trying to get her killed. You're a bum. You don't have a job, you don't have nothing to do because people that have something to do, they're not worried about the next person. You know, people who have a job are not worried about what's going on on social media.

8:37 You know, you like they're actually put in the work so they can enjoy the fruits of their labor. Like I said, there's many labels on what is a bomb, but I'm just naming a few or going off of the things that I've seen on Instagram or things that I've seen personally. But we do have to shed light on women who are bombs. Women who don't want to work but want to look pretty all the time, want to use men for that money instead of punching in the clock. You know, women who this is my pet peeve that I heard, you know, someone say like, it's a man's job to take care of the child.

9:22 A man should not have to. A woman should not have to do all the things if she carried that child, you know what I'm saying? Through birth. Like no, that's not how that works. It is a partnership. Even if y'all don't date each other anymore or y'all never dated, but things go when it comes to that child or the children. Y'all got to be working together, not working against each other. Y'all decided to have that child, so y'all have to work against each other. But if you expect the woman or the man to just do all the job or just to do all the work, then you're, you know, I'm saying you're a bomb.

10:05 In my opinion, like I said this, this is opinionated. Everybody has opinions on what is a bomb. But that is just my opinion on, you know, women being bombs. And we have to shed light on it because I keep saying it because it's a thing. We just don't know it. It's just not common. It is very common. If you go on TikTok you will find that there are women out here who are bombs. If you setting a man up for some money, you a bomb. If you scamming someone for some money, you a bomb. If you can go out every weekend and not put the work in at a job, you a bomb.

10:46 You know what I'm saying?

10:51 It it don't take much just to go to Dollar General and get an application. You got to put your pride to the side. If you can't put your pride to the side, then you're going to still be stuck in the same spot, in the same place. Who want to be stuck? Not me. But that is just my, you know, take on. We call men bums, but what about women? Y'all let me know what y'all think. Yeah, And if you think and if you like what I'll be talking about or if you like controversial topics, just make sure you like and you subscribe or you follow.

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